Some Relationships Effects

Some relationships destroy our lives from the psychological and social aspects

Relationships are very important to humans as they are our way of interacting and communicating with one another. They are essential in life, but not all relations are healthy. There are harmful and poisonous relationships

What are the harmful relationships?

Relationships may be harmless, but they are disabled; they will stop you from achieving your goals, such as the dependability relationship in which the person depends entirely on you and drains your strengths and helps you achieve your own goals

Destructive and harmful relationships are relationships that threaten your psychological and physical integrity; relationships that destroy your ability to feel happy and

enjoy life

Relationships that lose you respect for yourself and your self-confidence, your relationships in a constant conflict, relationships that manipulate you

Relationships that are threatened, i.e., relations that depend on threats and intimidation

Relationships that make you feel inferior

These models of relationships may found in your life in more than one location; in working relationships, relationship with a partner, relationship with the manager and relationships within the family. Ending this kind of relationship is a wise decision

How do you end a destructive or damaging relationship?

End the relationship by rational decision

In the beginning, the end of the relationship must based on a rational and wise decision without the control of emotions

Gains and losses in the relationship must calculated at this time, timing may be inappropriate to terminate the relationship

For example, if your manager is at work or work environment, your intervention is always in constant conflict and this affects your psychological peace and your ability to enjoy life and lose your respect for yourself, but at this time you do not have money or another source of work

Search prospects for improved relationship

See the relationship and ask yourself: Is it important? 

Is it non-destructive? Is there hope for improvement?

If yes, you need to solve the problem to correct the relationship

If the relationship is psychologically or physically devastating and threatens the security and safety of the person, such as cases of domestic violence, it must terminate and it is best to seek help in order to maintain safety

For example, a husband who neglects his wife and raises his voice a lot and this makes them feel the lack of self-confidence and distress and may affect the sponsorship of their children, but this relationship is important and there is hope to improve the solution here is the implementation of a strategy to solve the problem

Choose the right time to end the relationship

The time may be inappropriate to end the relationship and then you must prepare until the right time

Steps to end a harmful relationship

Terminating relationships is not easy. Here are the steps you can take:

Prepared to end the relationship; you can practice it in writing or with a friend

Choose the appropriate medium: by phone, in writing or in an interview. It is not wise to meet someone who harms you physically

To train on unexpected responses

Imagine the dialogue and the expected scenarios. The hurt person will not allow the relationship to end smoothly

How do you know you are in a harmful and destructive love relationship?

If you are in a destructive love relationship it may be more difficult to terminate if the person is under the influence of the hurtful person and finds him justified. How do you know you are in a destructive love relationship?

It a relationship that only harms you, loses your respect for yourself and makes you behave against your values and this makes you feel happy and lose confidence in yourself

It is a relationship in which the other party is controlled, jealous to the point of doubt, neglected to you, does not listen to you, constantly criticizes, manipulates your feelings, is fickle

This happens when you fall in love with the wrong person

Ending this relationship requires amputation, leaving no room for return such as a phone number, keeping memories like previous photos and conversations, and not going to the places where you meet him

Keeping a line back is not in the interest of ending the relationship and making it worse

Be aware that the other party may force you to feel guilty so that you do not end the relationship. Do not let this drift behind you and choose your safety first

The health relationship is a comfortable and supportive relationship and drives both parties to achieve their goals without pressure and without criticism or bullying. A relationship makes you feel confident and happy. It is a relationship without fear or threat. Everyone deserves a healthy relationship and deserves love